The Third Option
Negative and positive never work. One follows the other. Negative begets positive, positive begets negative, etc.. Win some, lose some, win some, lose some. Fairness and equity, two sides of the same coin. The circle is never-ending, the loop lazily energizing itself. The solution here is to always seek out a third possibility:
From negative or positive to NEUTRAL.
From horizontal or vertical to DIAGONAL,
From pro or con to CREATIVE,
From win or lose to PEACE,
From right or wrong to BEST,
From big or small to BALANCE,
From control or surrender to PRECISION,
From all-about-me or all-about-you to RESPECT,
From emotional or rational to INTUITIVE,
From yes or no to NOW.